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|Monday, August 21st, 2006|
where are the other anti-fuckwits?
Wow, I was randomly browsing communities (as I haven't joined any since joining LJ a few months ago and thought it was about time I was more sociable) and the word "fuckwit" caught my eye (probably one of my most overused words when I'm feeling emo or drunk, or just anti-men in general) Gotta say, excited about meeting fellow anti-fuckwits. But... not many posts on here recently? Tell me there'll be people on here regularly to read/comment on my rants, and in turn to post rants that I can read/comment on?! Current Mood: curious
|Sunday, December 11th, 2005|
Short story is: met a married, but separated, married man. *Could* have had sex with him, but my virginity was a sticking point for him. Am now his friend (sort of) from several states away and like to keep in touch with him, but it seems now like every conversation we have he brings up the size of his penis. Am starting to find this weird and grow weary of it. I think he needs to find some solution with his wife, whether it's reconcile or divorce.
(not very good at short versions, so here's the long one)
A few months ago I was fortunate to have the opportunity to go to a conference that was geared towards helping 18-30 year olds ask the right questions to help them move in the right direction in their lives. It was, ultimately, a very interesting conference and introduced me to Tamoc, who is now one of my very best friends. But she is not the fuckwit. That would be Skylar.
Skylar and I met on the first day and actually, didn't really like each other upon initial inspection. I thought he was a chatty-know-it-all and he thought I was a superficial bubblehead. Great beginnings, neh? But becuase we live in polite society neither one of us expressed our feelings and ended up sitting at the same table as each other, being in the same group as each other, and along with some other friends, spending just about the entire day together. There were 6 of us at the time (Tamoc was one of them) and we ended up having a great time.
Throughout the day I started to like him a little more, but never really developed any warm-fuzzy feelings for him because he wore a particular piece of jewelry on his left hand. Pesky thing, that. But several hours and alcoholic beverages later he pretty much invited himself over to my room. I didn't say no - that was clearly my mistake. I think I tried to justify it saying that I didn't think he'd come over, but I honestly don't remember what I was thinking. Perhaps that it'd been far too long since a guy showed interest in me.
He did end up coming over, but there were several problems. His intentions were *clear* but I couldn't stop thinking. First problem is - he's married, which actually, he brought up and told me how he was actually separated even though he still loved her, blah blah blah. Second of which was - I was (and still am) a virgin. A fact which I grow more weary of every day. He proceeded to tell me how lonely he was and all those great things that it was expected I wanted to hear, but I just wasn't into it. He clearly sensed this and my virgin status came out which put brakes on the whole evening. Which ended up being very good.
So, we spent pretty much the rest of the week talking, sharing emotions with each other, which really was nice. (Turns out he's already having an affair). I care about him a lot and I want him to have someone to talk to when he needs it. But (as mentioned above) every time I talk with him now, he mentions the size of his penis. I don't want to sleep with him anymore, and hope like hell that he doesn't expect something the next time I see him.
I don't think I'm looking for a solution because, hell, if I want him to stop, I need to just tell him. But I am kind of afraid that I'll lose him as a friend, but being that we only talk about once every 2 months, I suppose it wouldn't be that big of a deal. But I think sometimes it helps to have other people push you in the direction you know you're supposed to go. Current Mood: irritated
|Monday, July 11th, 2005|
the female f*ckwit?
what the hell is wrong with women these days? yes, i am one, but still... i grew up surrounded by the male of the species and then surrounded by them in engineering classes in college and now i find myself amongst women and i just don't get it.
my closest friend at work is moving in on a guy IN HER GROUP, reporting to the same supervisor. her history is this: she met a guy at her last company who was married, moved in on him (she's very aggressive about getting what she wants), then once she had him, decided the grass was greener on the other side, cheated on him (with someone else from her job), broke up with him, got back together with him. now, she's moved to this job. she is very flirty at work and attracted the attention of one of those i'm-an-asshole-and-proud-of-it guys who was only looking to get laid, who just happened to be married. so, while she was moving in on him (well, being swept along by his moving in on her), she was trying to justify her behavior to me 'cause she was PLANNING to cheat on the no-longer-married boyfriend. she told me that "comfortable was boring" and she needed "the thrill of the chase." so, she cheats on the boyfriend, he guesses that something is going on and breaks it off. this time he tells her that he can't live like this anymore and he doesn't want to see her again, ever. so she cries and tells him that she can't live w/o him and they need to be friends. dumb cluck that he apparently is, he falls for it. so, she's juggling the boyfriend and the asshole. one friday, a bunch of us go out after work and she gets all flirty with the guy in her group. saturday morning (she went home with the asshole), asshole wakes up, looks over at her and says "we're done, i'll take you to your car." the next monday, she's totally manic - one minute she's all giggly and happy over the flirtation with the new guy, the next she's in tears and falling apart over the asshole. so now, asshole is history, the former boyfriend is taking her to new orleans for her birthday, with her best friend, who gets to be the third wheel. she's lying to the former about the new guy. she's lying to the new guy (who happens to also be a friend of mine) about the former. she's STILL flirty with every attrative male that she encounters at work, and she's all pissed off at me 'cause i am not even remotely supportive of this whole idea. in the meantime, she called the former on saturday morning to break a date so she could go hang out with the new guy. the former informed her that he would take her to new orleans as planned, but then he was done. he FINALLY has decided that she's no good for him and he's decided to move on. and now she's decided that since the new guy didn't totally dance attendance on her on saturday, she's not happy with him either 'cause "she needs to be the center of attention." am i the only one thinking that any man with a brain should run like hell when she looks his way?
she's only one of the seemingly endless parade of women who are completely, utterly irrational. what is going on???
|Wednesday, March 16th, 2005|
Today's Award For Complete And Total Fuckwittage goes to:
The Australian fucking Governemnt. I'M OVERSEAS. IN A SMALL VILLAGE. WHERE AM I GOING TO FIND ANOTHER LEGALLY ENROLLED PERSON FROM MY STATE/TERRITORY TO WITNESS MY FUCKING VOTE???HUH?? Or I could fly 5 hours to the nearest Aussie embassy and hope someone from Victorai happens to be there the day i do? Good plan, BATMAN.
stupid idiots. This is why we should overthrow Johnny. Current Mood: angry
|Monday, February 28th, 2005|
hi - want to see a doozy? check out my lj. i've been sorta dumped by my sometimes boyfriend and friend of four years. this is painful. Current Mood: numb
|Sunday, January 30th, 2005|
oh men i hate men so much
grr i swear is there anyway to legally kill an asshole if it has a dick? i guess not eh well let me tell you
never i mean never move in with a guy
this jackass i was room mates with
1. steals my money
2.gets me evicted
3. threatens to sue me for money that i apparently stole which i didnt
and now he telss me 2 months fucking later!!! that since i never returned the keys he will take that as a sign that i was still living with him and that i owe him 2 months rent!!!
what the fuck!!!!
i hope he burns in hell
and get this
this guy is 32 years old(not an ex god no) and i am only 19 he said he was doiung me a favour lewtting me move in and now! NOW he is trying to fuck me over i find it pathetic that a man of his age would even attempt to take advantage of a girl my age to such a degree as he has and i swear to fuck i want him dead! i want to burn him alot burn burn burn fire fire fire
but... since that is illegal.....
i wont and cant and am going to have to deal with it the adult way and sue him with my pocket full of expensive lawyers and awsome connections... oh yes i the female has the power... and i will use he
to bad he never knew how much power i have and have and how i will use it and how he is so going down ...so down down down down!!!!!!!!
The Anti-fuckwit League community caught my eye because I have experienced my share of fuckwittage lately. I have been enjoying the single life after having my heart stomped on repeatedly by an assortment of fuckwits over the last few years, but I've discovered that single or not, it is nearly impossible to avoid any amount of fuckwits in my life. I could share specifics if anyone is interested, but what are we to do, to get the better of them?
~cheers Current Mood: discontent
|Wednesday, December 15th, 2004|
I am new to lj but quickly discovered this intriguing community. I am currently not a fan of men or of anyone in a relationship for that matter. Yes, I am bitter, I know. I am dying to read He's Just Not that Into You
because I hear it is an awesome guide for teaching women how to be slightly less stupid and more realistic with men. If anyone has read it, I would love to know what you thought. Also, I sometimes enjoy www.sothere.com. It is great if you need to feel better about your own screwed up relationships or if you need to vent to an understanding audience...
|Thursday, September 23rd, 2004|
|Monday, August 16th, 2004|
Hey there everyone. Well I was sitting up looking for something interesting when I stumbled across this community. Impeccable timing on my part because lately guys have really been irritating me. So hopefully it's alright that I joined and I just wanted to say brilliant idea for a community! Current Mood: impressed
|Monday, August 9th, 2004|
So this isn't a fuckwittage post, but. . .
It's for a good cause. I apologize in advance for the non-topic posting, but I'm posting to all of the communities to which I belong to spread awareness about some auctions going on for the Avon Walk For Breast Cancer. Here's the skinny:
I have this friend, Lisa, who is doing some good work right now. She's raising money for breast cancer. She's had this brilliant idea, which she put this way:Project Teddy Bear started as a realization that, living in New York City, I've got a lot more access to popular celebrities than most of my friends... and that I could use that to help me raise money for the walk. So, I bought a bunch of little stuffed bears from the Avon site and started hanging out around stage doors asking movie and television stars doing stints on Broadway and off-Broadway to sign them. I also went after a bunch of bona fide theater stars. We got off to a great start the first weekend successfully getting Hugh Jackman, Richard Dreyfuss, Jerry Orbach, Peter Scolari and Elizabeth Berkley. They got the momentum going and, before I knew it, I had to order more bears!
She's got more than just bears for sale on the auctions, so go to her website at http://www.lisaspo.com
and check it out and give some money to charity. You can write it off, you see. And you'll be doing good things.
Chop chop. Or you'll miss out.
|Friday, June 4th, 2004|
Hi, I'm new. Gemma, 15, UK. This is ( meCollapse )
and I'm here to do what the info page says.
|Tuesday, May 4th, 2004|
you know, as a whole, i like men.
when i see a large group of my guy friends arming themselves with golf clubs and going after a guy, just to defend the honor of a girl who got her ass grabbed at a party, my faith in the gender is renewed.
however, i can NOT tolerate things like my old job, where girls were made to do the undesirable jobs on a regular basis, were paid less (and this is an hourly retail job, not even a corporate position where the so-called "glass ceiling" could come into effect--it was the difference between starting at $6.50 and $7/hr., but it was still a discrepancy), and any complaints to the (primarily male) management were laughed off.
thank god i'm out of that place.
|Monday, April 19th, 2004|
hey im new here and aself proclaimed feminist
|Wednesday, April 21st, 2004|
you call men sexist? hehehe, whatta load, me, i believe that your opinions are almost entirely either hypocratic or based upon prejudice or unfounded reasoning.
1)ask yourself how society got like this in the first place?
2)for those of you who are religious, eve was the one who ruined it for everyone...
3)in my opinion, the only difference that wasn't inflicted by manipulation, pre programming, or influence, is purely anatomical.
4)there is a trade off, in exchange for men thinking the way they do, as a whole, women think the way they do. women have far more leverage, men...well what equals it out?
5)now think if there's anything else you should consider (there always is)
6)think....should i really even voice an opinion? or form one in the first place? should anybody?
note: this is not an attack merely a statement of my opinion, i should not have made it, let alone made it known, and i am abusing nobody, please do not abuse me.
hmm, men are cunts, yes. but women are bitches
|Thursday, March 18th, 2004|
Best community ever.
|Monday, January 19th, 2004|
haha yes this is EXCELLENT. oh am i glad i found this.
|Monday, January 12th, 2004|
Hi, I'm new here. This is the first community I've joined. When I saw the name Anti-fuckwit, I had to join. My ex of three and a half years used to call me a "mid evil fuckwit". I figured this would be a good place to start my emotional vomiting about him. Hope you all don't mind. Current Mood: tired
|Tuesday, November 12th, 2002|
Men suck!!!! You ask them to do you a small favor after you have been there for them so many times before, and of course they can't put their foot in their mouth for a simple 2 hours to keep you company!!! Bastard!!!!!!
|Friday, November 8th, 2002|
All Men Are Assholes Band Wagon
It's starting to look like I'm re-joining this trip.
I don't see why I can't just learn it from the first time around that MEN ARE EVIL! Bleh.
Can't live with them, can't live without them?
Sounds like utter bullshit at this point in time.
Sorry for the babbles....